Interviewer: Tell us about your relationship with Robert Downey Jr on set. Jude Law: Oh, I love him. I love him. Interviewer: Yeah? You had a bit of a bromance going on there. Jude Law: What is this new term everyone is using? Interviewer: Bromance? Jude Law: Oh, it’s a horrible term. What about just a romance? Interviewer: No, it’s not the same. Jude Law: Why not? Why? Interviewer: Cause then you’d have to star in a romantic comedy together or something. Jude Law: We just have. Have you not seen it? [x]
Jude Law does not have time for any of that ‘No Homo’ bullshit…
writing fanfic like “am i getting the dynamics of this friendship right?” “would this character actually say this?” “what is the proper ratio of kindness to sass?” “am i falling prey to overused fanfic personality shortcuts or is this a canon trait?” “am i overthinking this so much that i will grind to a standstill out of sheer terror?”
What I notice is that a lot of people in this community don’t get much feedback or anything in their inbox when they reblog questions, when they post a story etc. Feedback to any work is highly appreciated because we work incredibly hard to write these pieces. The reblogs are basically a writer’s way of saying “it would be amazing if one of you interacted with us! We’re bored or we want to interact with some of you so please send us something!”
Often, the writer gets little to no feedback and no asks, which deals a hard blow to their self-esteem. I cannot stress this enough; writers love you and want to interact with you. You’re not annoying them by sending something in. They love it!
Something I also noticed is that it’s only when a writer admits that they feel like quitting or is feeling upset do people begin sending asks.
Now, that is not wrong. In fact, I admire people who take the time to send asks to those in need to cheer them up. You all are doing so wonderfully and you should keep doing that.
However, when a writer openly states that they’re upset, that means they’re at their limit. I want to prevent that, so this is me saying that we have to do whatever we can to keep a writer’s confidence up.
Send more feedbacks. Interact with them! Drop a random ask saying how much you appreciate them/how much you love them! Let them know you love them and love their work! Because these messages keep a writer’s confidence up, motivates the writer and keeps them happy. A lot of times writers don’t feel that pleased with their own work, I know some who have a record low self-esteem and I know for a fact that they aren’t the only ones in the community.
So let’s not just send things in when a writer has reached their limit. Take a little time to send something in to make sure they don’t reach that point. They devote so much time and effort to their blog, to their stories and to you, and it’s all for you, their followers. We should take a minute to send some love in return for the countless hours they give us.
Seriously guys. Talk to me give me feedback! Request! Something!
Exactly this. Exactlythis! Thank you for taking the time to write this post! It is exactly and perfectly the right description for what it is like to be a writer with a blog! It takes so much time out of my day to run this blog and the little amount of feedback I get can be super disheartening.
It’s always nice on those random days when I get asks of appreciation or like tags and shit! I live for that stuff, so never feel annoying. You aren’t being annoying; in fact, you’re being the opposite!
Lack of interaction is EXACTLY why I stopped posting Asylum as a web serial. In the long run, I’m glad I did, because Asylum is getting the edits it needed, but there was a six month chunk in there where I had given up on writing entirely. It just felt so stupid, writing posts talking to readers as if I had them, putting up my most favorite chapter at the one year mark knowing that no one else was gonna see it, no one was gonna chat me up about the cool turns it was taking, or even to tell me it all sucked. It just felt pointless, because it was.
I dont know where I’m going with this. It saps my desire to make words just thinking about it.
It just felt so stupid, writing posts talking to readers as if I had them
When I get no feedback, I assume that it’s because my content is not good enough. It’s especially easy to believe on AO3, where my stories have dozens, hundreds of hits, and only 2 to 5 Kudos (I am not even talking about comments, these only come once in a blue moon); this gives me the impression that a lot of people look at the story, go ‘Meh’ and leave. And I am sure I am not the only one!
Just had a thought for an action hero thing: 30-something woman hero is doing her ass-kicking thing. One day, her boss shows up at her door, and tells her she has to stand down, or there will be consequences. “Honey, it’s not that you’re too old. It’s just the public don’t like to see a woman of your age saving the day. It feels emasculating”.
So woman is stripped of her support team, fellow agents, and is pretty much put on the shelf. She tries to do heroing, but keeps getting cockblocked by younger women or superhero men she used to work alongside.
Just when she’s hitting rock bottom (and sitting in her house wearing pyjamas and eating ice cream), there’s a knock at the door. Judi Dench is standing there, and our heroine assumes it’s a charity collection.
“Oh no, dear,” Dench says, smiling. “We’ve come to recruit you.”
“Recruit me? For what?”
“To do what we do best: save the bloody world.”
And all at once she’s part of a covert ops team made of all the older women who have been retired and who currently are holding the reins of managing the world.
Of course, a few older women heroes and vigilantes don’t take the offer. Some are too embittered by the rejection they’ve faced and decide to show the world exactly why they’re still to be feared.
Enter Judi Dench’s arch-nemesis, Dame Helen Mirren.
I need this like air
Look – here’s your casting call:
Sigourney Weaver – 67
Pam Grier – 67
Lynda Carter – 65
Linda Hamilton – 60
Angela Basset – 58
Michele Yeoh – 54
Ming-na Wen – 53
Famke Janssen – 52
Halle Berry – 50
Tia Carrere – 50
Carrie-Anne Moss – 49
Lucy Lawless – 49
Lucy Liu – 48
Uma Thurman – 47
Angelina Jolie – 41
Milla Jovovich – 41
Sarah Michelle Gellar – 40
The Recruit:
Jessica Alba – 36
Emily Blunt – 34
I need this to happen!
There should be a whole bit about how uma and Lucy liu can never be in the same place because of an old grudge.
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE
Betty White runs the whole Op and everyone reports to her.
I need this in my life.
Holy cow this needs a book, a comic, a tv series, several movies and video games immediately!
“ It’s armor. On a woman. It doesn’t have to look feminine.”
If I ever don’t reblog this, it’s because I’m dead.
game devs take note
What a weird impulse. Why would you need it to look feminine? Or masculine? It’s armor to protect your body from death. Not dying should be gender neutral.
Not dying should be gender neutral
If I want my armour to look like anything at all, I want it to look terrifying. My enemy should take one look at my badassed self and shit their pants because they Do Not Want to engage me. If I want to feel pretty and feminine on the battlefield, I’ll wear lacy underthings.